I’m a self-confessed “over-thinker” so this happens to me on a regular basis.
Years ago, my tendancy to over-think was crippling at times.
I found it impossible to make decisions and spent hours, sometimes days and weeks, agonising over possible outcomes if I made the “wrong” decision.
The longer I spent in my head and the more I thought about things, the more irrational and extreme my thoughts would become.
Sometimes, my mind was my own worst enemy.
Does your mind work with you or against you?
Had you asked me this prior to 2009, without a doubt I would have said my mind worked against me.
But in 2009 I discovered journaling.
Actually, it was recommended to me as a tool for getting in touch with my “negative” emotions.
I used to be one of those people who almost never shared my darker, more painful feelings and experiences.
My default response whenever anyone asked me how I was doing, was “I’m cool”.
Regardless of what was happening in my life and how I was really feeling, my reply was always the same.
I began writing a journal to acknowledge and face emotions I had buried and suppressed for probably my entire life.
Initially, it was a challenge as I was an extremely private person and I had an irrational fear that someone might find my journals and discover how I really felt.
I also felt that I didn’t deserve to feel sad, upset, lonely, angry or any of those feelings.
There were people in the world with much worse lives than me so my view was that I should just suck it up, keep smiling and get on with life.
I’m also acutely aware that everyone has their own sh*t to deal with, as well as the fact that a lot of people don’t genuinely care about your problems.
Thankfully, I was introduced to journaling and began to discover the benefits of writing a journal.
Over time, I’ve discovered that with journaling, I can get my mind to work with me and that it’s actually a really powerful ally.
7 Benefits of writing a journal
Writing a journal is more than simply recording a description of your daily life.
Research has found that writing about traumatic, stressful or emotional events results in improvements in both physical and psychological health.
I can vouch that writing a journal has definitely helped me to maintain my mental and emotional wellbeing.
Different people get different benefits from journaling but here are 7 benefits of writing a journal that I have experienced:
1. Improved clarity
This is absolutely the number one benefit I’ve experienced from regularly writing a journal.
Writing in my journal helps me to identify and explore the root causes of my emotions and fears.
It helps me to separate myself from my thoughts and allows me to put things into perspective and context, by giving me enough just enough distance to look at them rationally and objectively.
My journal also helps me to solve problems and aids my decision making.
2. A deeper relationship and connection with self
Journaling has been one of the most powerful tools for not only getting to know my authentic self but also embracing my true self – warts and all!
Writing a journal is a continuous journey of self-discovery as it enables me to explore my feelings and thoughts, without judgement.
It’s never an enjoyable experience when someone points out your faults and weaknesses.
Journal writing increases self-awareness and I find it a kinder, more gentle way to face my shadow personality.
Writing in my journal challenges my thoughts, beliefs and values and forces me to constantly look at what is driving my behaviour.
It also highlights any toxic feelings, thoughts, habits and emotions, and gives me a safe space to confront them.
3. Limitless creative thinking
When I journal, it’s not uncommon for me to have a handful of ideas and feel totally inspired.
My journal gives me the freedom and confidence to dream without limitations.
I capture all the ideas that come to mind, no matter how “unrealistic” they may seem. And by simply writing these ideas down, it’s much more likely that some of them will become a reality.
Sometimes, we can have what seem to be the craziest dreams and most outlandish ideas and we wouldn’t dare to share them with friends or family.
However, your journal is a place where you are free to express your deepest dreams and desires.
4. A simple tool to consciously create a life you want to live
My journal is a place where I set my intentions.
Initially, this was a fairly random practice, but now I try to do this in line with the lunar cycle.
Every new moon I’ll read a few astrological predictions and then I’ll reflect on what I want to manifest over the coming lunar cycle.
Your journal allows you to take control of your life by choosing what you want and then exploring what you can and need to do to create the life you want to live.
I also use my journal to set my intentions for the day ahead by writing affirmations, quotes and possibilities.
5. An easy way to measure and track your progress
Looking back through your journal means you can identify habits and patterns of behaviour, both positive and unhealthy.
It helps you to identify what does and doesn’t work as well as highlighting what needs improving and what needs ditching.
After writing a journal for some time, you will see patterns emerge in your behaviour and moods, which gives you the opportunity to make changes as well as identify any triggers.
Additionally, by regularly writing in your journal, if you ever have second thoughts or doubt any decisions, you can look back and remind yourself of the reasons or motivation for your choice.
6. A safe place to vent
If you’re on social media, you’ll know that venting has become a normal way to communicate.
However, it’s rarely helpful or healthy venting.
Your journal gives you a safe, non-judgemental space for you to vent about the driver that cut you up on your way to work or your work colleague who gets on your last nerve.
Most of us have someone we go to, to let off steam, but we don’t always feel comfortable expressing ourselves completely.
We often censor what we say – whether it’s due to a fear of being judged, or if you’re anything like me, you may be conscious of sharing “negative” energy – but as a result, we can end up feeling extremely frustrated.
And we often act out that frustration in a toxic way if we leave it unsaid.
I was the Queen of holding things in, but with my journal I can let it all out, then let it go.
7. A reason to slow down and disconnect
I keep a handwritten journal and it’s what I encourage others to do.
Of course, in the world of smartphones, there’s a huge selection of journaling apps to choose from, but for me, it doesn’t have the same effect.
Writing by hand is becoming an ancient craft, so if you spend most of your day using a computer and smartphone, handwriting in your journal forces you to use your brain in a different way.
I touch type and have a fairly fast typing speed so writing by hand forces me to slow down and think more about what I’m writing.
That in turn, helps me to focus on how I’m feeling.
Additionally, having a regular journal writing practice means I commit time for myself and disconnect from the world and technology.
It’s time I spend with myself, by myself.
This can be uncomfortable at times, but it forces me to face my authentic self, which provides an opportunity for growth.
What you need to start writing a journal
A notebook and a pen.
That’s all you need to enjoy the benefits of writing a journal.
I normally use pretty notebooks so I’m inspired to write in them, but it can be a standard no-frills notebook.
The pen needs to be one that feels comfortable writing with.
Most of us type these days, so you may find that your hand gets tired quite quickly when you first starting writing in your journal.
Your journal is not a place for perfection. It’s completely unedited writing.
You’re also not limited to writing. You can be as creative as you want.
You can include drawings, collages, poems, photographs and more; anything that you find interesting or want to capture.
If you adopt a regular journal writing practice, it’s likely that your journal will become your most trusted confidant.
It will become a place for you to be fully self-expressed and get to know your true self.
Write authentically as if no one will ever read your journal.
I hope that by sharing the 7 benefits I get from journaling, I have encouraged you to consider adopting your own journal writing practice.
If so, you might be interested in joining the FREE 31 day October Writing Circle starting on Saturday, 1st October.
A group of women will come together virtually to get to know themselves at a deeper level, supporting each other along the way.
I’d love for you to join us so you too can experience the benefits of writing a journal.
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